First, forget everyone else and focus on your personal happiness. Maybe it sounds egocentric but it’s true. No one can make you happy, not people, not things. You have to look inside yourself and find what makes you happy. And that will set off a chain reaction of happiness. I was searching for marriage advice and I heard that a lot of couples divorce because “their spouse didn’t make them happy anymore”. You know how ridiculous that sounds? Have you wondered why sometimes the same things that make you happy one day, don’t the other? Do you know what I mean?